Thursday, May 20, 2010

It Is Not That Bad.

This week the ultimate ritual for soon-to-be lawyers began - Bar Prep. Those two words tend to scare law students, make law school graduates cringe, and elicit big sighs from licensed lawyers.  But, they shouldn't.  As a recent Texas Bar survivor, I can honestly say it is not that bad.

After the July 2009 Texas Bar I asked several of my peers "how was it?"  I heard everything from "it was worst than I expected" to "I rather have been run over by a Mack truck."  Big mistake - I was mentally psyched out six months before I began studying for the Bar (I almost feel it should be referred to as "the test that shall not be named.")  This did not serve me well.

During my Bar studying, a dear friend that had passed the Bar kept saying “it’s a mental game.”  He was right.  Once I mentally and emotionally settled down I was able to focus and study more effectively.  At that point I was in the zone, and it was great.  I know that sounds odd, but it was great - I enjoyed seeing my progress and the more I progressed, the more I was motivated.

I am sharing this story with you because I want you to know it is not that bad.  What I discovered going through the process was preparing for the Bar does require a lot of time, energy, and focus, BUT the Bar is not this horrible monstrous thing.  It is manageable.

So, here’s my advice: (1) trust yourself – you know how you learn best; (2) pace yourself – it is a mental marathon and a steady pace will serve you best; and (3) take “mental health” breaks – you cannot neglect your entire life, schedule time with family, friends, fitness, or whatever you enjoy; that time only makes your study time more productive.

Good luck all and remember, it is not that bad

4 comments:

  1. Love this! Completely agree with you on all points. So very proud of you.

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  2. Love this advice! Completely agree and I am so proud of you.

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  3. I couldn't agree more. I am excited to see how much I can nail down/learn in the next 10 weeks. I know that I am preparing to be an attorney NOW, even before I take the Bar Exam. When it's all over, I'll be a walking encyclopedia of law! Oh, and I can get paid for it too.

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  4. Good Advice Lene'! You're absolutely right..."It's not that bad!" :)

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